Good News and Bad NewsPublished: Jan 19th, 2021 07:07 pm
The bad news is that you’re not going to fit in with everyone and everywhere….
Trying to fit in means trying to please people and seek approval from everyone around you. Trying to fit into a popular group, crowd or anywhere happens when the thought of being lonely or not being a part of a certain group is unimaginable.
Fitting in makes us feel self-assured and happy but the trouble is when you try too hard to fit in and end up losing a part of yourself in the process. It doesn’t help in the long run because it stops you from being who you genuinely are, which in turn might push you to the edge.
Life is all about developing meaningful relationships. So stop shrinking yourself to fit in places you’ve outgrown. Because what people around you need the most is for you to be yourself. The real and the thoughtful person who can blend in and be happy rather than trying to fit in forcefully.
The good news is the best can never fit in always and everywhere, and you don’t need to, either……