I am a proud momPublished: Oct 22nd, 2020 07:30 am
Hardev Kumaran, that’s the name of my son, my love of my life!
A blessing in my life!
The bond that we both share as
mom and son is the most special one. It gives utter happiness when I think of
all his cute gestures and naughtiness.
Kids in every way are special!
And mine is all the more!!
He gives me lot of opportunity to
One beautiful lesson that my son
One day I was very upset with his
behaviour and I had communicated that with him. He asked for apologies without
hesitation. As he usually does, he came up to me saying, “I am sorry mom. I
will not repeat it again. For whatever wrong I have done you can give me any
punishment and I shall abide by it.”
I was badly upset that day as he
had been repeating the same mistake again and again and so I just looked deeply
into his eyes without saying a word. He understood that I am hurt badly because
of his actions. He immediately hugged me and said that he will not hurt me
again by repeating the mistake and he
was there near me till I was back to my normalcy. He made sure that I was
happy before he moved away.
That consistency which he showed in valuing my feeling is the lesson he
Most of the times when we as
adults hurt people, we just say a sorry and move away. We also get upset that even
after saying sorry that the relationship is not turning to normalcy. We fail to
understand the impact that our behaviour created in that other person’s life
and emotions. Why don’t we spend that little extra time and take that extra effort,
like how my son did, to put the things back in place so that people feel more
valued and important?
Of course we should not repeat
the mistake again too!
I realized this!
I have started applying it in my
If we are ready to learn and
unlearn, life and people around us have lot to teach us!
Thank you my dear Hardev..my
kiddo..!!! I am a proud mom.